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[他人的事成] 感情复合——来自秘密官网的故事   [复制链接]

发表于 2013-1-21 12:57:29 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
很多人都是因为感情问题,开始接触吸引力法则,秘密官网上也有很多来自各国的故事。看到论坛上有不少期望复合的朋友,找了2个复合的故事,希望每个人都有信心找到or找回自己的幸福!
当然最最最重要的还是爱自己、提升内在、离开任何人都依然开心快乐,和别人在一起时能让他们更加开心快乐(我内修的目标),哈哈!祝每个人都在2013年快乐、幸福!!!

来自洛杉矶女孩Ronesha的故事
On September 20th my boyfriend and I had a falling out. He just stopped talking to me and I told him I was going to see other people. The day after I complained to two of my friends about what happened. I even tried to move on my going on the dating website we had met on.
12年9月20日我男朋友和我分手了。他不再和我说话,我告诉他我准备去见见其他男生。当我向两个朋友抱怨了这些以后,我甚至试着去我们相遇的相亲网站尝试新的恋情。

Flashback about 7 months before I met my boyfriend. I read The Secret and wrote a full list of what I wanted in a boyfriend and one of the things I wrote was that we will have a relationship that will lead to marriage.
闪回7个月前,还没遇到我男友,我读《秘密》并且写下我想要的男友条件清单,并且写下我们的恋爱会最终走入婚姻。

We dated for 6 months and I knew he was the one for me. But when we had the falling out and I tried to move on, something in my heart and mind kept whispering he is the one, why are you trying so hard to move on? I really tried to look at other guys but my heart just kept telling me he is the one. I know I had attracted our falling out because my thoughts were always on what if he breaks up with me? or he isn't ready to be with me yet. And guess what? I got just that.
我们约会了6个月,我知道他就是我要的那个人。但是当我们分手了,我也试着走出继续寻找,我的心和意识中的某个东西不断和我昵语:他就是那个人,你为什么那么努力的去寻找别人?我真的试图寻找其他人,但是我的心不断告诉我:他就是那个对的人。我知道是我吸引了分手的结局,因为我不断有他会和我分手或者他没有准备好和我在一起的念头。猜猜发生了什么?我得到了这些。

But after a day or two of morning, I decided that if I wanted him back I would have to be grateful for already having him in my life and grateful for the other things in my life. I made 4 vision boards of him proposing to me, us getting married and getting a home together. I even went on a wedding invitation website and went as far as making the wedding invitation and everyday I read it over and over. I put everything from the date to the location and I would visualize us getting married and me walking down the aisle. I even visualized him proposing to me with the ring I picked out on the Tiffany website. I also looked at the picture of the ring everyday and visualized myself wearing it. I had a ring similar to it and I wore it on my ring finger to get the feeling that I was wearing it. I listened to uplifting love songs and saw everything about him a positive light.
但是在一两天以后,我决定要他回来,如果我想他回来,那我就要对他已经出现在我生命中进行感恩,对我生命中的其它事情进行感恩。我做了4(3?)个愿望板:他向我求婚,我们举行婚礼和我们一起组建家庭。我甚至去了一个婚礼邀请网站,甚至制作婚礼邀请,并且每天一遍一遍读它。我定下每件事情从婚礼日期到婚礼地点,并且观想我们在举行婚礼,我们正走过婚礼通道。我甚至观想他正拿着我在Tiffany网站上选的戒指向我求婚。我也会每天看这个戒指图片,并且观想自己正戴着它。我有一个类似的戒指,我戴上这个戒指并且感受我正戴着婚戒。我听着令人振奋的情歌,看关于他的每件积极事情。

Instead of telling my friends about things in our relationship not going well, whenever they asked me how things were with my boyfriend I told them things are great. I set up a place in my bed for him every night and pretended to talk on the phone with him every night. I just thanked god and told myself he is my husband he is mine for life. This was only within the span of about a week and a half, but it felt like forever. I visualized meeting his family and his friends and having a future with him, the way I wanted it. I told myself that I am the only girl who can make him truly happy and that I am the only one for him.
我不再和我的朋友们谈论我们关系出现问题,无论何时他们问我和男友怎么样,我都会告诉他们进展的非常好。我每天晚上都在床上为他留下空间并且假装每晚都和他煲电话。我只是感谢上帝并且告诉自己他是我的丈夫,他这辈子都是我的。我观想见他的家人、朋友并和他在一起共建我希望的未来。我告诉自己我就是那个唯一使他快乐的女孩,我是唯一适合他的女孩。

I also read on a website for the secret about how when you write things down they become more real and it is already put out in the universe. So I wrote on October 1st , 2012 that he will message me and ask to meet me at my apartment and when I meet him in front of my apartment he will give me a big hug and kiss and flowers and tell me that he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me and that we will work through everything and then he will take me out to dinner that night. Since I am an artist I also drew out the whole thing and looked at it everyday.
And GUESS WHAT!
我也在秘密网站上读到当你将事情写下来,这些就变得更加真实并且递交给了宇宙。所以我写下在2012年10月1日,他会发短信给我,并约我在我的公寓见面,当我和他在公寓前见面时他会给我一个大大的拥抱、吻还有鲜花,并且告诉我他爱我,希望和我共度余生,并且我们可以克服一切,他还会在那天请我出去吃晚餐。因为我是个画家,所以我还会画下来并且每天看着。
猜猜发生了什么!

On October 1st he messaged me and told me he wanted to meet me at my apartment and he was there with flowers and gave me the biggest kiss and hug and told me he wants to spend the rest of his life with me and we worked everything out and he even took me out to dinner!!!!! I was so happy. All I did was just thank god for him everyday and visualize every day and night. I believed and it worked.
10月1日那天他给我发了短信,告诉我他想在我的公寓见我,他带着花,给我一个大大的吻和拥抱,告诉我他想和我共度余生,我们可以克服所有的事情,他甚至带我出去吃晚餐!!!!!我太太高兴了。我做的只是每天为他感谢上帝并且日夜观想。我相信这真的有用。

Now things are falling into place and everything I asked for is happening. Our relationship is in a much better place and I cant thank god enough for it. I have even met some of his family and his friends and this all happened within three weeks. I grew up with The Secret as a kid, I learned about visualization and how to get what you want but it's amazing to be able to really apply it and see it work. Now me and my boyfriend are so happy and we know we want to be together for the rest of our lives. I know I have definitely manifested our marriage and future. I have done it for school, friends, family, and my future plans. I have been able to pay to go to an amazing art school on the East Coast and I have had opportunities that I would have never dreamed of because of The Secret.
现在尘埃落定,我所有期望的事情都正在实现。我们的关系更加亲密,我对上帝的永远感谢不够。我甚至见到了他的部分家人和朋友,而这些都发生在短短的3周时间里。我是一个伴随《秘密》长大的孩子,我学到视觉化并且如何得到我想要的,但是实践并成真绝对是太神奇了。现在我和我男友非常快乐,并且我们知道我们想在一起共度余生。我知道我已经完全证明了我们的婚姻和未来。我已经将它实践在学业、朋友、家庭和我未来计划上。我已经可以支付东海岸一个很棒的艺术院校的费用,如果没有《秘密》,我根本不会奢望那些机会。

My days are filled with happiness and joy because I believe that they will be. All I have to say is dont let anyone ever tell you anything is impossible because anything is possible. No matter how old you are, you can achieve anything. Anything you can imagine is real!
每天我都充满了快乐和喜悦因为我相信梦想会实现。所有我要说的是:不要让任何人告诉你什么是不可能的,因为一切皆有可能。无论你多大岁数,你都能做到任何事情,任何能想象到的事情都能成真!


来自迈阿密姑娘Sabrina的故事
Well, I have so many things to say that I don't think I will ever finish, but I will try to make it "short." First of all I want to thank Rhonda and her team for such a great book that has helped so many people, and everybody who posts their stories here because it sure helped me so much!!
我有好多事情要说,我想我能一直不停地说下去,但是我还是试着长话短说吧。首先我要感谢Rhonda和她的团队写出的如此棒的书(《秘密》),此书已经帮助了很多人,同时感谢每位将他们故事发表在这里(秘密官网)的人,这对我也有很大帮助!!

I knew I would be writing my story here too, and here I am. My boyfriend and I had been together for almost 2 years and a half, and he one day decided wasn't feeling the same way about me, he was not putting effort in the relationship and he thought this was not fair for me, and decided to break up with me, in June 2012.
我知道我也该在这分享下我的故事,所以我来了。我男朋友和我在一起2年半,有天他觉得对我已经没有同样的感觉,他不再为我们的关系而努力,他觉得这对我很不公平,2012年6月他决定和我分手。

I was devastated, however, this had been the second time he did this to me. He broke up with me for the first time (after almost 2 years of relationship) because I was a little too jealous, and he "did not feel the same way anymore." He never said he didn't love me, he instead said he was going to love me for the rest of his life but things were not working out and he wasn't very happy. That first time, after 1 month of no contact I decided to text him and we went to dinner the next day and got back together, and after 9 months, he did it again (for the second time, which was this year, 2012, and my story).
我很崩溃,然而,这已经是他第二次这样对我。他第一次和我分手(差不多相恋2年的时候)因为我容易嫉妒,他说“对我再也没有同样的感觉。”他从来没说过他不爱我,他说他会永远爱我但是有些事情变了他不再快乐。第一次分手,1个月没联系,然后我发短信给他,第2天我们一起吃晚饭并和好了。在9个月之后,他又一次提出分手(第2次发生在2012年,也就是我这个故事)。

Like I said, I was super sad, and I cried and begged a little this time, but of course nothing worked. I then said, this is it, no more, he doesn't appreciate how great I am and if he wants me back then he will come by himself, not because I am chasing him. All my friends knew how sad I was, and one of my best friends told me I had to read this great book that was going to help me so much not only with this situation but with everything in my life. Of course the book was The Secret. For some odd reason my sister had it already, so I borrowed it.
就像我说的,这次我非常伤心,我哭了并且祈求,但是当然没有用。然后我说既然他已经不再欣赏,如果他想复合,他就要自己回来,而不是我追回来的。我所有朋友都知道我多么伤心,一个我最好的朋友告诉我:“我读了一本很棒的书,这本书不仅可以帮我处理这种状况,而且可以在生活的方方面面帮助我。”当然这本书就是《秘密》,因为一些奇怪的原因,我姐姐已经有了这本书,所以我借了它。

From the very first time I read it I started thinking that maybe it is true that I attracted this breakup again. I was always thinking he was going to do it again, he was going to hurt my feelings again, that he one day might find someone whom he liked more, etc. and I said, well, if I attracted this, I can attract him to my life again. My friend had told me about the book to find happiness, to ask for someone who really cared and loved me and who was not doubting like my ex was. But, I loved and missed him so much that I just wanted to attract HIM again.
当我第一次读,我开始想它也许是对的,是我吸引了又一次分手。我一直想着他会再提出分手,他会再一次伤害我的感情,他有天可能遇到一个更喜欢的人,等等。然后我说,好吧,如果我能吸引到这些,也就能将他从新吸引回我的生活。我的朋友告诉我,这本书可以找到快乐,可以去祈求那些真正关心和爱我的人,像我前男友一样的人。但是我如此爱他、想念他,我只想吸引回来。

Just like The Secret says, I started with simple things. I said one day I wanted to see a deer because I haven't seen one lately. Sure enough, I saw one next day. Then I said well maybe seeing a deer is not that hard, I want to see a baby deer now, and, 2 days later, I saw TWO baby deers. I was so amazed, and I was always thankful for bringing those things to my life.
就像《秘密》说的,我从简单的事情开始。我说我希望那天看到鹿,因为我好久都没见过了。无疑,我第2天就看到了一只。然后我说也许看到鹿并不难,我现在想看到一只鹿宝宝,在2天以后,我看到2只鹿宝宝。我非常惊喜,我一直感谢这些进入我的生活。

I said I wanted to see a rainbow, and the next day someone posted a picture of a rainbow on Facebook. I did not specify how, I just said I wanted to see one and there it was.
我说我想看到彩虹,第二天就有人在facebook上放了张彩虹的图片,我无法详细说明怎么发生的,我只想说当我想看什么,什么就出现了。

So, I went to something harder... I wanted to eat my mom's lasagna that I didn't eat for around 3 or 4 months. Two days later she was going on a trip and she texted me "I left you lasagna in the oven." There is when I said, wow, this is really working and I was shocked.
所以我想做些更难的事情…我想吃妈妈烤得宽面条,我已经3、4个月没吃过了。2天以后她去旅行,她发短信给我说“我在烤箱里给你留了宽面条。”我说:哇,这真的有效,我被镇住了。

So I started writing a journal, I thanked God and the universe for everything I was happy about in my life, and I wrote how I wanted my relationship to be with my ex. I also said the first day he was going to contact me was August 29th, 2012. I created a vision board with pictures of us smiling, and some other things I want to attract. I also put some things in a bag that were at his house and I had to bring with me when we broke up, so that when he came back to me I could just grab the bag and take it to his house again. I got a chain with a cross and the word 'faith', which helped me when I was doubting sometimes. I would say to myself he will be back, everything will be ok and we will be happy. I put all of our pictures in my room again, and I slept every night with a teddy bear he had given me.
所以我开始写日记,我向上帝和宇宙感谢一切生活中快乐的事情,我写下我希望和前男友有怎样的关系。我说他将在2012年8月29日联系我。我做了个愿望板,放上我们一起笑的照片,和一些其它我先吸引的事物。我整理了一些东西放在我们分手时我从他家拿走的包里,这样我们复合的时,我可以直接拿起包去他家。我得到一个有十字架并标着“faith(信仰)”的链子,它在我对任何事有所怀疑的时候帮助我。我告诉自己他就要回来了,每件事都会好起来,我们会非常幸福。我又在房间里摆满我们的照片,并且每天和他送我的泰迪熊一起睡觉。

After he broke up with me, he contacted me twice, just to see how I was but he never brought up the topic. After the first time he contacted me was when I applied The Secret. Well, August 29th came and nothing happened, BUT, I never gave up. I always said maybe the universe thinks another day will be better and I am ok with that. I had written on my journal that we would go on our first date on September 1st, and get back before September 12th, and that the first place he was going to take me out was Olive Garden.
他和我分手以后,他联系过我2次,只是看看我怎么样,但是复合的念头。第一次他联系我是在我实践《秘密》以后。8月29日到了,什么都没有发生,但是,我没有放弃。我一直对自己说也许宇宙认为其它的时间更好,我听从安排。我在日记上写着我们将在9月1日第一次约会,并在9月12日以前复合,他带我去的第一个地方会是橄榄花园。

Well, September 1st was gone, and I still had nothing but again, I never stopped believing. On September 4th, HE TEXTED ME! We talked about our lives and then he brought up our relationship. He told me he was sorry, he did not know why he decided to push me away and that he wanted to take me out to dinner to talk about things. When I asked him where he wanted to go, he said Olive Garden, and I was thinking again WOW, this is working.
9月1日过去了,仍然什么都没有发生,但是我从没停止相信。9月4日,他发短信给我!我们聊了聊现在的生活,然后他想复合。他告诉我他很抱歉,他不知道为什么他决定推开我。他想带我出去吃晚餐聊聊这些事情。当我问他想去哪里,他说去橄榄花园,然后我想:哇,这真的起作用。

We went to dinner and talked, we decided to take it "slow" ... he will show me how much he is really willing to do for me and if he really wants to be with me for sure.
我们去吃晚餐并且交谈,我们决定慢慢来…他将向我证明他真的有多想和我复合,有多确定要和我复合。

Then yesterday was our second date and it was amazing. He couldn't stop looking at me and said many times he was so happy to have another chance, a THIRD chance.
昨天是我们第二次约会,真的棒极了。他无法停止看着我,并且说了很多遍他真的很高兴还有机会,第三次机会。

He is being extremely sweet with me and I am so happy. He asked me last night if he could call me "his girl" again, and I said yes. So, sure enough, we are back together before September 12th, which was the date I set up.
他对我非常好,我很幸福。他昨晚问我是否能再叫我“his girl”,我说可以。所以,无疑我们在9月12日以前复合了,就是我之前定的日期。

I am extremely happy to be working with The Secret in my life. I feel positive and I want to share this great knowledge with many people. DO NOT STOP BELIEVING, always know that it is on its way, no matter how hard it seems. Do not give up.
我非常高兴《秘密》在我的生活中起作用。我觉得非常积极并且我想要和很多人分享这么棒的知识。不要停止相信,相信它一直起作用,无论这看起来多么难。千万不要放弃。

I wish you all the best, and always believe that your dreams will come true!
我希望你们都拥有最好的,并且一直相信你们的梦想能成真!

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发表于 2013-1-21 13:40:33 来自手机 | 显示全部楼层
哇~
我正在吸引前男友。
增强信心呢。
谢谢楼主分享。
谢谢宇宙爸爸让我看见。

对不起  请原谅  谢谢你  我爱你

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亲 建议换个仰头微笑的照片吧 漫漫冬日已经过去 你温暖的春天就要来了 哈!  发表于 2013-1-21 14:16
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发表于 2013-1-21 14:00:05 | 显示全部楼层
很强大的正能量 谢谢楼主 非常感谢
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发表于 2013-1-21 14:54:15 | 显示全部楼层
哇哇哇,喜欢喜欢,谢谢楼主,多多得分享哟^_^
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发表于 2013-1-21 15:36:02 | 显示全部楼层
看到这些~就要好好反思我自己的思维了,为什么别人可以吸引来幸福,可以复合。

自己呢? 好好改变吧~
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发表于 2013-1-21 16:10:45 | 显示全部楼层
哇,好神奇呢。真的好棒呢,感谢分享,谢谢你,我爱你。
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发表于 2013-1-21 17:25:12 | 显示全部楼层
感谢分享,这些故事很鼓舞人呢
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发表于 2013-1-21 20:32:01 | 显示全部楼层
很不错的分享,给吸引前男友的女孩们都增加信心了哦
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发表于 2013-1-21 22:17:29 | 显示全部楼层
谢谢分享:)、
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发表于 2013-1-21 22:32:48 | 显示全部楼层
哎呀呀  又增加了信心,论坛的力量就是大!!!
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发表于 2013-1-22 06:41:53 | 显示全部楼层
太好了!大家一起加油!!

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加油!!!为你祝福!!!  发表于 2013-1-22 23:42
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发表于 2013-1-22 08:35:27 | 显示全部楼层
非常棒的分享,谢谢你,我爱你
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发表于 2013-1-22 09:34:14 | 显示全部楼层
谢谢这些分享给我们带来了很多的美好的正能量。
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发表于 2013-1-22 12:55:39 | 显示全部楼层
好有力量的分享啊!谢谢你!我爱你!
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发表于 2013-1-22 22:06:20 | 显示全部楼层
这个很鼓励我
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发表于 2013-1-28 14:04:18 | 显示全部楼层
对不起,请原谅,谢谢你,我爱你
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发表于 2013-1-28 15:55:58 | 显示全部楼层
【不要停止相信。】谢谢你,我爱你。
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谢谢楼主分享。

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感谢分享,打出来仔细看看~
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