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发表于 2017-3-13 09:33:34 | 显示全部楼层 |阅读模式
Can You Attract A Specific Person With The Law Of Attraction?
BY KATHERINE HURST
你能够通过吸引力法则吸引到某个特定的人吗?

本文由我的吸引力翻译团倾情翻译,翻译者如云如水。 感恩亲爱的。
英语来源:thelawofattraction     by: Katherine Hurst


Can You Attract A Specific Person With The Law Of Attraction?
While many people start learning about the Law of Attraction with the hopes of finding a soulmate, others are hoping to find love in a particular place. Perhaps there’s someone you’ve always wanted to be with and yet have never approached, or maybe you remember a past partner and yearn to be reunited.
很多人学习“吸引力法则”是为了能找到自己的灵魂伴侣,与此同时,也有很多人是为了在特定的地点坠入爱河。可能你一直想要和某个人在一起,但从未实现;或者你仍然思念着某个过去的爱人,想要和TA复合。

Regardless, you’re probably wondering whether it’s even possible to attract a specific person by using the Law of Attraction. The truth is that you can do it, just as you can manifest anything else you desire. Let’s take a closer look at how to attract a specific person, and consider some of the best techniques you can use.
不管是以上哪种情况,你很可能非常想要知道,是不是真的能够通过吸引力法则吸引某个特定的人。事实证明,你当然可以如此,就如同你可以实现任何其他的愿望一样。让我们更近一步来看看怎么样才能做到,其中又有哪些好用的技巧呢?

How To Attract A Specific Person
Even when your hope is to manifest a specific person as a partner, working with the Law of Attraction will still involve primarily focusing on yourself. That can be hard to accept at first—after all, if there’s someone you’re deeply attracted to or are even in love with, it’s likely that this person is almost all you can think about some of the time!
即使你的心愿是想要吸引某个人作为你的伴侣,吸引力法则还是应该在【你自己】的身上工作。可能一开始,这个观点很难被接受——毕竟,某人正深深吸引着你,或者得到了你全部的爱,在很长一段时间内,你的所思所想,全都聚焦在了他的身上。

You might have thought that you could use the Law of Attraction to get this other person to love you. However, using the Law of Attraction is all about your emotions, your thoughts, and your unique vibration.
你可能已经想过,你可以运用吸引力法则让某人爱上你。但是,吸引力法则需要聚焦的是与【你】有关的一切——【你的】情绪、想法,和独一无二的震动频率。

Now, what are some concrete ways to focus on yourself in a way that facilitates the Law of Attraction bringing a specific person to your door?
那么,我们该如何聚焦于自己,才能让吸引力法则带那个TA到我们身边呢?

Here are seven approaches worth trying.
以下是值得一试的7种方法:

1. Be Confident About Yourself
自信

Self-confidence is powerfully alluring, and the person you desire is more likely to see you in a positive light if you can perceive your own value more clearly. Try to connect with all the reasons that you have a lot to offer in a relationship—for example, make a list, draw out a mind map, or keep a journal in which you write one positive thing about yourself per day.
自信是一种强有力的“吸引力”,如果你能更深刻地认识到自己的价值,那么你想要的那个人也会以一种积极的态度来看待你。试着去列出一些理由,来证明你在一段关系中有很多东西可以提供给对方。你可以尝试去列一张清单,画一张思维导图,或者写一篇日记。

2. Build Positive Beliefs About Love
If you spend all your time thinking you can’t or won’t get a partner, you’re unlikely to attract the one you love. In addition, try to avoid self-pitying thoughts like “Why don’t people appreciate me?”—the truth is that plenty of others do and will appreciate you, but you need to be open to seeing this.
建立一个关于爱的积极思考
如果你花费了大把时间去想:“我不能或者不会得到一个伴侣”,那么你很可能吸引不到你所爱的人。另外,避免一些自怨自艾的情绪,诸如“为什么没有人欣赏我”之类的。事实上,有很多人已经或者将会以欣赏的目光注视着你,你需要敞开自己,去看到这些目光。

When you let in the love and admiration, you create a space to experience the love of the person you want to be with.
当你走进爱与欣赏中,你会创造出一个空间,在此,你可以与所爱的人一起去体验爱。

3. Let Go Of Fear
One of the most frightening parts of love is allow yourself to experience it. After all, it comes with the possibility of being hurt in the long term. When this fear is at the forefront of your mind, you can unconsciously erect barriers and defences that keep other people away. Work to make peace with the risks involved in love, and you’ll be fully open to receiving the right partner.
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4. Have A Good Time
Studies consistently show that laughing, smiling and being downright fun are all incredibly attractive. You’re noticeable and appealing to other people when you’re enjoying yourself, so try to really throw yourself into all your hobbies, interests and passions.
享受生活
不断有研究表明:大笑、微笑,亦或是保持愉悦的态度,具有不可思议的吸引力。当你完全享受自己的生活时,你在他人眼里同时也是非常具有魅力的。所以,让自己完全沉浸在你的兴趣爱好或是无限激情中吧!

Make it your mission to enjoy every day of your life, and you’ll be more likely to attract your chosen person at a faster rate.
把“享受每一天”当成你的日常任务,这样很可能会更高效地吸引到你选定的那个人。

5. See The Other Person Positively
If you’re looking to attract someone with whom you have a complicated history, your feelings might be somewhat confused. However, if you spend a lot of time thinking about the person’s negative traits (or traits you worry they might have), you’ll keep them at a distance.
以积极的眼光看待他人
如果你试图吸引一个和你走着复杂情感纠葛的人,可能你自己的思想也是非常困惑纠结的。但是,如果你一味地把注意力放在他们的缺点(如果你想象中他们可能会有的缺点)上,你会慢慢将他们推得更远。

Try to zero in on the best things about the person, and to keep focusing on them. You may be surprised by how quickly this change in attitude can spark changes in the other person’s behaviour.
试着看到,并且聚焦在某人最大的优势上,或许你会惊讶的发现,你对他们态度的改变,迅速地改变了他们的行为模式。

6. Enjoy What You Have
A huge part of successfully using the Law of Attraction involves learning how to better live in the moment, really savouring every day and every good experience. This is what will give you that all-important higher vibration—the vibration that attracts more good things into your life, including the partner you desire.
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Try to let go of obsessing over what you don’t have, and you’ll soon see things start to fall into place.
试着对你没有的东西臣服和放手,你很快会发现,每件事情都各归其位。

7. Prepare To Let Go
As with any goal, you’ll need to find a way to let go of being with the other person if you’re ever going to manifest the relationship you want. It’s only when you’re able to accept being happy and at peace without this other person that you will be able to attract them.
准备放手
和其他所有的目标一样,即使你得到了你想要的关系,也要学会在适当的时候放手。只有你有能力在没有外在他人的情况下仍然保持快乐和平静,你才真正的有能力去吸引他们。

This is challenging, but with time and effort you can begin to see how life could be okay (and even good) without this person as your partner. Then—and only then—will you be ready to receive their love.
这是一份挑战,但是随着时间和努力,你会看到生活越来越向好的方面发展,即使没有了这个特定的人也是如此。也正是在这个时候,你才真正做好了准备,去接受他们的爱。
发表于 2017-3-13 10:51:19 | 显示全部楼层
感恩分享,在微信公众号上看到了,来这里看看英文原文。聚焦自己!让吸引力法则带那个TA来到我身边!谢谢!
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谢谢分享~~~~~~~
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对不起,请原谅,谢谢你,我爱你。
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发表于 2017-3-13 15:10:38 | 显示全部楼层
感恩分享
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對不起 原諒我 謝謝你  我愛你
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感恩分享,在微信公众号上看到了
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多谢分享  谢谢翻译~
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